| Most of us are taught from day one as children that | | | | safe. Most people dislike change because their own |
| lying is BAD! This is probably not a new revelation to | | | | comfort zones are small and uneducated. |
| you and I believe that the moral majority is not | | | | I get this all the time with my candidates. They say, |
| deceitful most of the time. Sure there are occasions | | | | "I'm not good enough for that position" or "I'm not |
| where we lie for seemingly "good" reasons, but I | | | | qualified to get this new career opportunity". And you |
| know that is a load of crap! This behavior actually kills | | | | know what? With that type of thinking you won't |
| people. | | | | and then you confirm that you were right in the first |
| That's right your lies are killing people everyday! Sadly | | | | place! Somehow this behavior makes us happy deep |
| the most important person you are killing is yourself! | | | | down inside, even though it kills us slightly each time |
| As a restaurant management recruiter, I speak with | | | | we do it. |
| people everyday from all across this great nation of | | | | Do we stop? Hell no we don't stop and we keep |
| ours and I can tell you that our history of lying has | | | | doing it which pushes us further backward in our |
| never been greater than at present. This destructive | | | | professional and personal lives and stunts our growth |
| behavior is actually fostered by our society and our | | | | as human beings. |
| workplace. Although they are partially to blame, you | | | | If you can't tell or feel that I have just returned |
| are actually influenced the most by your parents | | | | from a life-changing seminar, I would guess your mind |
| when you were a child. | | | | is working on hurting you some more. |
| Have you ever said, "I can't"? | | | | I know that everyone is put here for a reason and |
| Chances are pretty good that you have! | | | | regardless of what you spiritually believe in there are |
| Well, let me explain something to you. There is no | | | | no flawed people! |
| "can't"! That is all a load of bull that has been fed to | | | | You were PERFECT the moment you were born and |
| you and you ate it up and asked for seconds. | | | | you're still perfect. It's your thoughts that are flawed. |
| There is nothing as human beings that "can't" be | | | | Luckily for you they are easy to change, but once |
| done. You either choose or want to do something or | | | | again it comes down to choice. |
| you do not. When you say, "I can't" you are | | | | Do you truly want to improve your life... or keep lying |
| essentially confirming your own hidden agenda that | | | | to yourself? |
| your mind holds dear. Your mind is not doing this | | | | The choice is yours and yours alone! |
| because it doesn't like you, but rather to keep you | | | | |